Sweetheart

You’ve known violence in your life; maybe on the outside, maybe on the inside with a mind that has tortured you with fear,s hame, darkness and doubt. Enough of that now. It is time for a gentler way – less pain, more gain. No more torture. It’s your time for sweets and treats.

There is so much violence in the world, and in our own minds, that we can assume this is just the way of the world, that we have to accept it, deal with it, and thereby forget we have the right to question it and even change it, if we so choose.

Even the most ambitious desires for healing the world start with us as individuals. We cannot bring more peace to the world if there is violence in our hearts. Regrets, shaming judgements, fear of not being good enough, uncertainty and constant pushing to become more, to do more, to have more, can become the energetic equivalent of beating ourselves up every day. This creates invisible bruises that never have time to heal because we don’t give ourselves the sweetness, kindness and compassion we need to break free from the abusive cycle.

The oracle of Sweetheart comes to you with a message of a new cycle – one that is sweeter, one that is more loving, one that promises new life. But you have to be willing to dispense with the violence, one step at a time. This means beginning to substitute judgement for kindness in how you relate to yourself and to the world. You deserve to give yourself a gentler life journey. Would you accept this for yourself? It is your choice every day whether to go into the world fighting against it, or with the belief that it wants to – and can and will – help you do all you have been born to do.

If there are abusive or toxic relationships in your life, then you’ll need to do some relationship overhauling, even if it means ending one or all of them. No matter how much the people involved may proclaim their love, no matter how much you may wonder if you are ‘making it up’ because appearances seem so acceptable and yet underneath, you cannot help but feel that something isn’t healthy, if a relationship is holding you back rather than helping to lift you up, then reconsider its place in your life.

You cannot taste the sweetness that life wants to bring to you if you are crammed full of stuff you don’t want or need anymore. Create some space. Get a bit hungry. Ready yourself for receiving life’s nectar and believe in the power of your new beginning. You are a true sweetheart of the universe. Let yourself be treated accordingly.

Healing Trick:

To help you take the wisdom offered and put it to best use in your life now, do this healing trick to clear obstacles putting this guidance into place.

You are going to find a piece of food you can make as an offering. It is best if it is something sweet, like fruit or honey.

Place your offering on a small dish, then place your hands above it and say the following:

“This offering to the universe is blessed with the sweetness of life. I am ready to receive sweetness into my life – in the most healing, sacred and special of ways, each and every day. Thank you so much for all the love and support that fills my life now as I leave behind the old ways and embrace the new.”

Imagine, visualize, feel or pretend that there is a soft golden-pink light flowing down from the centre of the universe, through your hands and into the food, filling it with divine blessings. It is the sweetest feeling you can imagine, so beautiful and soft and pleasurable!

When you are ready, eat your offering, knowing that you are ingesting sacred sweetness and beginning your new journey into a different way of living. Really taste your offering. You are sharing a meal with the universe.

You have finished your healing trick.

Affirmation:

Say the following affirmation aloud to boost the power of this message and to integrate it into your body, mind and soul. You can say it morning and/or evening for a few days, or even a few months if that feels right for you, or just at the end of your healing trick.

“Sweetness in my soul, sweetness in love, sweetness in life, sweetness in light. Sweets for the sweet! I am ready to eat! Sweets for the sweet! Here is my feast!”

Card artwork: “Lady Bug’s Heart” by Gracjana Zielinska