Black Moon Lilith in Aries

Lead Your life

Release the shame around who you are. It’s time to embrace the fire that burns within you.

When this card appears, the universe is calling for you to embrace your desires, set boundaries, and say no. You may feel the need to take on the world by yourself, rejecting support from others for fear of appearing weak. This can leave you feeling depleted. The lesson here is that you can both lead others and rely on them for support-the first step is to change your belief around independence.

Aries is the masculine first sign of the zodiac, ruling over the self, identity, and personality. Symbolized by the ram, it’s an energetic Fire sign that prefers to blaze its own trail. When Black Moon Lilith is here, you can feel forced into the role of having to do everything on your own, or your desire or natural tendency toward independence can trigger others. The mother may have had to lean heavily on their masculine energy to support the family. Singer Billie Holiday was a natal Black Moon Lilith in Aries with a teen single mother and an absent father. This can be an inherited pattern of self-reliance and fear of support from others that can leave you feeling unfulfilled.

Dark Divine Feminine Shadow Work: Accepting support is healthy and will help lift energetic burdens. Once you accept support, the universe will manifest more people who want to support you. You are opening your divine feminine container to receive abundance!

Dark Divine Masculine Shadow work: You secretly admire and gravitate toward independent energy. This creates inner tension with your own masculinity. The key is to learn to lean in to your leadership while accepting and integrating other opinions. Allow divine masculinity to shine, while also giving space for others’ desires.