Healing the Divine Masculine

Osiris Rises

The Divine Masculine within men and women is the energy that allows for protection, discernment, healing and a sense of deep safety and holding, even through the most uncomfortable circumstances of life. When the masculine within us is healthy and strong, we have an inner strength to hold ourselves safe through anything. Your Inner Masculine is going through healing right now, growing stronger in His ability to offer you inner protection and stability so that your Inner Feminine can blossom with creative expression

The Inner Masculine and Inner Feminine need each other. When they are in good inner relationship with us, we feel like healthy, whole human beings. We are able to live as ourselves in the world in a relatively peaceful, creative and enjoyable way. When there is damage to the Inner Masculine, there is difficulty in standing up for our truths, in knowing what our truths and values are, and in knowing how to protect them without feeling as though we have to fight constantly just to be allowed to be ourselves. We might also feel that unless others see things as we do, we have no power, and then have to fight to dominate others, manipulating them to our point of view.

The Inner Masculine part of us often needs healing so that He can fulfill his Divine Purpose of inner strength, protection and honoring of the Self in all its uniqueness, so that we can live as free, strong individuals that know who they are and are happy to just love and ne that person – and allow others to do the same. This will happen at any time He is asked to hold even more consciousness, to hold permission and strength to be even more of the unique Self. The Masculine and Feminine within us need to be in balance with each other. There is no point having a powerful feminine – with unique values and strong creative force – without an equally strong masculine energy that is able to act upon those unique values, no matter what others may think, and take action to allow the creative force of the inner Feminine to flow into form in the physical world. When your inner Feminine is growing and desires to express her uniqueness n the world more boldly than ever before, the inner Masculine needs to grow in self-belief, self-worth and self-confidence so that he may take action to allow the blossoming Feminine to truly be in the world whilst feeling secure and safe.

This Oracle indicates your Feminine Self is blooming and your Masculine needs to be able to protect and honor Her. Sometimes, just as Isis looked for Osiris to help put him back together when he was torn apart by hatred, fear and jealousy of his Dark Brother Set, our Feminine needs to help the Masculine to heal, so He in turn can help Her.

Your Masculine consciousness can be healed and grow stronger through His relationship to the Inner Feminine within you. By adjusting and healing our own views of masculine energy, so that our Feminine is no longer willing to experience masculine energy as violent, aggressive, unfeeling or controlling, a healing shift begins. The Divine Inner Feminine can then choose to relate o the Divine Inner Masculine in a different way, to hold a different vision and different beliefs of who he is, what he can do and what his purpose might be. She might choose to experience him as a tender, protective, strong, discerning and stabilizing energy.

What this looks like in our life experience is a change in how we are within ourselves and with others, in how we move and live and experience the world. We have more of a willingness to eb kind to ourselves, to honor our feelings and to not be bullied into stepping away from our truths by others or even by our own self-doubt or self-criticism. It is an inner commitment to love and honor the Self  and an inner trust in this commitment. So when the feeling arises to try something new creatively or spiritually, for example, there is trust that this will be respected and acted upon and it is!

When the healing of this relationship begins to occur within us, our outer relationships also change and flow into healthier expression. We begin to feel safe, protected and strong enough to take risks and live a bold, expressive, truthful and creative life with more energy and passion.

The Oracle guides you to realize that your Inner Masculine could benefit from some restoration and healing after being ravaged by expectations that in order to be acceptable he should never feel anything, that he should always be dominant and that only the most violent and aggressive alpha masculine behaviors are to be respected. If you are already working on this aspect of your own healing, you are encouraged by this Oracle that it is working and to stay with your process. You are encouraged to empower your masculine energy, seeing it as tender, protective, containing, strong and aware. You are also encouraged to continually choose to let go of behaviors that cast the Masculine as perpetrator or as dominating.

Use your inner Feminine courage, trust and determination to avoid castrating the Masculine by considering it weak, useless or unnecessary. For healing to happen for both Masculine and Feminine, we must be prepared to let go of feelings of victimization, domination, disappointment and dissatisfaction and do the sometimes challenging inner work of learning to relate to masculine and feminine energy with a completely different approach!

This can be enough to set healing in motion. It takes persistence, determination, patience and application for the damaged masculine within us and outside of us to be restored to glory, but with Isis to help us, great healing miracles are made possible.

Once the Masculine begins to gain strength and be empowered to express itself in a less clichéd and more authentic way, we gain the wisdom and power of honoring and boundaries, we learn how to respect and be respectful without losing our power or becoming servile, we learn how to cut through manipulations and posturing in the world of relationships straight to the truth of a matter. Masculine and Feminine energies can then do what they are ultimately destined to do, which is unite in love to create harmony, bliss and the peaceful fulfillment of inner wholeness.

Ritual for Healing the Divine Masculine for Men and Women

A candle is helpful for this Ritual.

You may like to find a space where you can make some noise and not be disturbed or disturb others if possible.

Light your candle, and then stand with your two feet hip-width apart and firmly planted on the ground, with your arms resting by your sides and your knees slightly bent. Gently lift and place your eight foot down on the ground again and repeat this lifting and placing of the foot on the left side. Really feel where your feet connect you with the ground.

Half close your eyes and focus on your candle, continuing to lift and replace your feet on the ground, one side followed by the other side, for several more repetitions until you feel strong awareness of your connection to the ground.

Next lift your arms up above your head, elbows just slightly bent, and face your palms towards the sky. Imagine that you can feel the connection of your hands to the sky and then lower them down by your side. Repeat this several times, gazing at your candle.

Raise your hands up to the sky an push your feet into the earth, keep your awareness on your candle and say, “From the Sky, I am Strong, From the Earth, I am Strong,” then place your hands on your belly, still pushing your feet into the earth, and say, “From my belly, I am Strong” and finally touch your heart lightly with one hand, allowing the other to remain on your belly, and saying, “From my heart, I am Strong.”

Then focus on your heart and say, “I am healed within, my strength and love are balanced within, the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine within me are in perfect healing flow now. So be it!”

Finish the practice with the Incantation below and then extinguish your candle.

Invocation to the Divine Masculine

You can say this Invocation to finish the Ritual above and use it at any time you need to re-engage with masculine energy in a new and healthier way – whether within yourself when there is a question of boundaries and integrity at hand, or when relating to another and you want to bring a healthy, high vibrational energy to the relationship.

Man of Power, Man of Fire

Man who liberates heart’s desire

Man within and Man without

Man stronger than fear or doubt

Father, Warrior, Leader, Lover

Protector, Hunter, Teacher, Brother

Man Divine, Man of Love

Man of the Earth, Man of Heaven Above

Your Strength, My Strength

Your Power, My Power

Your Love, My Love

Integrity, Honor, Compassion, Protection

Tenderness, Stability, Passionate Attention

Man Divine, Man of Love

Man of the Earth, Man of Heaven Above